Jewish Law
Shhhhh... Why Is Silence So Important?
Finding even a few quiet moments each day can transform you
- Orit Grosskot
- פורסם ט' תמוז התשפ"ג

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We live in a world of words. Talking, writing, reading... it never stops. In every possible media and in every form, words are the tools for communication between people, and sometimes it seems like no one even knows how to stop.
What would happen if we took the opposite approach? This question has intrigued many researchers who decided to study the power of silence. Here are some of their fascinating conclusions:
A quiet person attracts attention
Do you want people to notice you? Try being silent. When everyone is talking, it’s actually the silent person who will draw attention. The brains of the listeners pick up on the fact that something a little out of the ordinary is going on and they want to know why. This is why many speakers incorporate strategic pauses into their lectures.
Silence allows you to become a better listener
People who practice silence become better, more attentive listeners. They become more attuned to the words, expressions, and nuances of others, and develop empathy and understanding. This can transform them into the kind of person everyone wants to be around.
Silence promotes reflection and inner peace
The world is full of distractions and the noise can seem non-stop. People who know how to create quiet space for themselves, how to find that time free of distractions when they can just be silent, learn how to achieve inner calm and tranquility.
Silence also allows us to connect to ourselves and listen to inner voices that sometimes get drowned out in the general noise.
Silence leads to patience
Patience is acquired through continuous practice. A person who chooses the path of silence and learns not to react impulsively to every comment or remark thrown their way, practices patience on a daily basis.
Those who know how to stay quiet understand that not everything needs to be said.
Silence nurtures inspiration
Even the most outgoing and talkative person needs some space for quiet and reflection to generate new ideas and perspectives. A person who takes breaks of silence gives their brain the rest it needs to renew its sources of creativity.