Personality Development
How Much Money Does a Person Need to Be Happy?
Why chasing money can cost you joy, and what truly brings lasting fulfillment.
- Rabbi Eliyahu Rabi
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How much money does a person need in order to be truly happy?
Some people will say it takes hundreds of thousands of dollars. Others will say millions of dollars. And surely, some will claim that unless you have a billion dollars sitting in your checking account, you can’t possibly be truly happy.
But here’s the surprising truth: happiness and money don’t always go hand in hand.
Early in life, most people are absolutely convinced that happiness depends on money. They assume that the more money you have, the more happiness you’ll have.
As they mature, they realize there’s no real connection between money and happiness. They begin to believe that it’s possible to be happy even without wealth.
As they grow even wiser, they come to a deeper insight: There is a connection between money and happiness, but not the one they thought. When people chase after money, they lose their happiness, but when they stop chasing- when they live more simply- they begin to feel happy again.
Those who invest most of their life chasing wealth often do so at the expense of their marriage, their children, and their inner peace.
They end up with full bank accounts but empty lives that are lacking calm, joy, and an understanding of what real happiness is.
This doesn’t mean that it’s a mitzvah to be poor or that we should run from money. It means that we need perspective.
Even if you work hard for your income, don’t forget that your family, your soul, and your spiritual life come first. They need daily care and investment, hour by hour.
Once that is addressed, you can worry about how to fund it all.
Those who come to this kind of clarity in life and learn to distinguish between what truly matters and what doesn’t, ultimately find both the material needs they’re looking for and, more importantly, the lasting happiness and spiritual purpose that make life worth living.