A Dean’s Blessing: Wisdom for New Doctors

About two weeks ago, Tel Aviv University's School of Medicine held its degree ceremony, marking the end of years of hard work for a group of young, hopeful doctors. As the students received the diplomas they had dreamed of, Professor Ehud Grossman, the school's dean, stood up to offer more than just congratulations. He offered something even more valuable: guidance rooted in Jewish wisdom for the road ahead.

Professor Grossman spoke warmly, quoting from Pirkei Avot—Ethics of the Fathers, a classic Jewish text filled with timeless teachings—and from the Rambam (Maimonides), one of Judaism's greatest sages and also a physician. His words were later shared by media personality Sivan Rahav-Meir on her Facebook page. Here is his full speech:

“Dear students, families, honored guests, and faculty members.

It fills me with joy to see another class of doctors and dentists completing their studies and receiving their diplomas. You've walked a long, demanding path to get to this moment. And while it may feel like the end, I’m here to gently remind you—it’s just the beginning. Ahead lies the challenging journey of specialization and long hours in our healthcare system.

In Pirkei Avot, Chapter 6, Mishnah 6, we find a list of qualities through which Torah is acquired. Surprisingly, these same traits can guide you in becoming not only great doctors but also great human beings. I won't list them all, but here are a few: consistent study, deep listening, an open and understanding heart, humility, joy, purity, patience, limiting sleep, a pure soul, avoiding self-praise, loving others, staying far from honor, carrying others’ burdens, and always giving credit where it’s due.

As someone who has worked in medicine for many years—both in clinics and classrooms—I'd like to take those ideas and turn them into simple, heartfelt advice for you as you begin your path as physicians:

First and foremost, understand that medicine is not just a job or a profession. It’s a calling. It’s physically, emotionally, and intellectually demanding. To meet those demands, you must love what you do. You’re working with people—real people—so you must be a mensch, a kind and decent human being. It’s not enough to be an excellent doctor. You must strive to be an excellent person. Give your heart to your work. Don’t just treat diseases—see the full human being in front of you. Remember that medicine is not just a way to make a living; it is a mission.

Second, even though you’ve just finished your studies and know so much, don’t stop learning. Medicine advances quickly, and today’s knowledge may not be enough in five years. Take a page from the Rambam’s book: walk the “middle path.” Don’t rush to embrace the newest trend, but don’t stubbornly cling to the old either. Be humble enough to learn from your own mistakes—and from the mistakes of others. Not every patient can be saved. You are human. That is part of the challenge—and the beauty—of this path.

Third, practice patience. Even if you think a patient’s choices caused their illness, hold back from judgment. No one deserves to be sick. Every person is deserving of your care, effort, and respect.

Fourth, never take privacy lightly. In today’s world of instant messages and overheard conversations, medical confidentiality is sacred. Your patients are placing their trust in you. Don’t break that trust—not in the hallway, not in an elevator, not even in a private joke with a colleague. Remember: walls have ears.

Fifth, know that the most serious mistakes in medicine often come not from lack of knowledge—but from rushing, carelessness, or missing small details. Sometimes the best treatment is simply to sit with a patient, listen deeply, offer comfort, encouragement, and compassion. That in itself can heal.

Sixth, guard yourself against arrogance. When you’re with patients, be present. Don’t check your phone or focus on the computer screen while they speak. Give them your full attention.

Seventh, learn to work together. Medicine is not a solo act. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or consult others. Treat every colleague with respect—doctors, nurses, technicians, everyone. And before you criticize, ask yourself: could this have happened to me too? Be generous in giving credit to others.

And finally—perhaps most importantly—take care of your personal life. Make time for your family, your friends, and yourself. Don’t let work take over your whole life. Learn how to say “no” respectfully when you need to protect your time. Soon, time will become your most precious resource—use it wisely. At the end of the day, your happiness won’t come from awards or titles, but from the strength of your relationships. Your family will be your anchor in the storm. Don’t lose sight of that.

Before I close, I want to ask you to do something. Please take a moment to thank the people who stood beside you through this long journey. Turn to your families, who supported you with love and patience, and give them a round of applause.

I wish each of you tremendous success in your path as physicians in Israel.”