Chabad Gatherings and Traditions: A Unique Celebration of Togetherness

Every group has its own customs, and in this article, we'll explore the unique traditions of Chabad Chassidism, as described by Rabbi Tuvia Bloy, a veteran chassid in Israel. His book on these customs, which was published decades ago, represents ancient practices in Chabad Chassidism that likely originated abroad.

Central to the Chassidic experience is the 'farbrengen'—a gathering where chassidim share a meal, sing heartfelt melodies, and discuss Torah teachings.

Chabad Chassidim don't say 'enjoy your meal' but rather 'for your health'.

At the meal's conclusion, before performing the ritual of "washing after meals," they recite certain Psalms such as "By the Rivers of Babylon" (Psalms 137) and "For the Leader, on Stringed Instruments" (Psalms 66), along with other verses from the prayer book. On days when the penitential prayer 'Tachanun' is not said, they recite "A Song of Ascents" (Psalms 126) and "A Psalm of the Sons of Korach" (Psalms 87), among others. They endeavor to bless the 'Birkat Hamazon' over a cup of wine, even if there are not ten diners.

Even those without living parents say, "May the Merciful One bless my father and teacher... and my mother and teacher..."

Whenever appropriate (holidays, family celebrations, guest visits, etc.), a "Chassidic gathering" takes place. The setup involves placing a bottle of wine or spirits, small cups, and possibly pickled fish or various vegetables on the table for a snack. The participants begin to sing soulful "Niggunim" (melodies). One person, designated as the "server," pours a drink for everyone. The recipient takes the cup and says "l'chaim" twice; others respond with "l'chaim ul'bracha" before the drink is consumed along with a taste of the snack, and the gathering continues with more singing and speaking.

The Chabad dance following a gathering or during Simchat Torah is the “Star Dance”: Two chassidim place a hand on each other's shoulder, creating a bridge where others place their hands on either side. The "star" spins to the rhythm and punctuated foot tapping.

On the eve of Rosh Hashanah, the tenth of Shevat, and at opportune times, a chassid writes a "pidyon nefesh" (soul redemption note), asking the Rebbe to pray for compassion for him and his family, listing specific needs. The "pidyon" is composed after a ritual immersion and while wearing a 'gartel' (traditional belt), then sent to the Rebbe.

Chabad has a special calendar that includes important Chassidic dates, like the "Festival of Liberation," birthdays, and yahrtzeits of the Rebbes. On these days, a Chassidic gathering occurs.

Among hundreds of Chabad "Niggunim," "The Rebbe's Niggun," or "The Song of Four Stanzas," holds a special place, sung with deep emotion and enthusiasm on significant days like Rosh Hashanah, Simchat Torah, the 19th of Kislev, the tenth of Shevat, the last day of Passover, Shavuot, the 13th of Tammuz, and during weddings.

Every individual should reflect on their spiritual state on their birthday, give charity, and increase Torah study. On the Shabbat before the birthday, they are called to the Torah. On the birthday or near it, they strive to have a private meeting with the Rebbe or at least write a letter seeking his blessing.

When someone moves into a new home, they conduct a "Chassidic gathering" and study Torah together as a "housewarming" celebration.

According to the decree of the Chabad Rebbes, a chassid is obligated to study daily, in addition to their regular Torah lessons, the "Chitas"—Chumash (Five Books of Moses), Psalms, and Tanya. The Chumash portion includes daily study of the weekly Torah portion divided into seven daily segments (according to the division for the seven Aliyot on Shabbat), with at least Rashi's commentary and preferably an additional one. The Psalms are divided according to the thirty days of the month. The "Tanya" is studied according to the special division for the days of the year, and relevant calendars are printed as appendices in the latest editions of the "Tanya".